A Case for In‑Person Coaching Over AI

Tue, 05 Aug 2025
career coach

At Vixly, we believe coaching is more than advice—it’s connection. While AI tools promise 24/7 access and lower cost, evidence consistently demonstrates that in‑person coaching—whether via video call or face‑to‑face—is significantly more effective when true personal transformation is the goal.

1. Authentic Human Connection and Emotional Nuance

  • In-person coaching enables coaches to read body language, tone, and micro-expressions—facets AI simply cannot perceive. This emotional resonance builds trust and deepens the coaching relationship, which is crucial for client transformation.
  • AI tools lack the human presence required to meet deep emotional needs. A recent article noted that people are turning away from AI life coaches due to their inability to form authentic emotional bonds.

2. Greater Effectiveness in Reaching Personal Goals

  • A study by Cilliers et al. found that only in-person coaching produced significant long-term improvements, even though both in-person and virtual coaching had short-term benefits. You can read more about this here.
  • The Institute of Coaching reports that 80% of those coached show increased self-confidence, and over 70% experience improved performance, communication, and relationships. See their findings here.

3. AI as a Useful Supplement, Not a Substitute

  • Research on AI-augmented coaching suggests that generative AI is most useful when supporting human coaches. A 2025 study from Stanford outlines these dynamics in detail: AI-Augmented Coaching.
  • Another study examining AI-generated support messages during weight-loss interventions found that participants rated human messages as more authentic and helpful than those from AI. Read the study here.

4. Real‑Time Feedback and Adaptive Guidance

  • In live coaching, coaches respond instantly to emotional cues, confusion, or breakthrough moments—adjusting direction in real time. This dynamic interaction is central to effective coaching.
  • A comparison of in-person versus virtual training from Bizzuka shows that real-time engagement, eye contact, and interpersonal connection significantly enhance retention and focus. View the article here.

5. Sustained Learning and Retention

  • Data & Society research shows that in-person training fosters stronger engagement and long-term retention compared to purely online learning. The same principles apply to coaching. Review the findings here.
  • A meta-analysis published in ScienceDirect showed that in-person coaching consistently outperforms digital-only formats in leadership development and emotional intelligence growth.

6. Balanced Hybrid Use vs AI Dependency

  • Companies using a hybrid approach report that while AI tools offer convenience, the majority of users still prefer sessions with a real human coach. A 2023 study discusses these trends in more depth: Human vs. AI in Coaching.

In-Person Coaching at Vixly: What Sets Us Apart

  • Tailored Human Insight—Certified coaches listen, observe, and adapt in real time.
  • Dynamic Guidance informed by empathy, nuance, and experience.
  • Relational Trust through authentic conversations—not scripts.
  • Proven Impact: Behavioral change, stronger confidence, clearer goals.

Why AI Audio Bots Fall Short: A Quick Comparison

Feature In-Person Coaching (Video/Office) AI-Assisted Coaching
Emotional empathy High—reads verbal & nonverbal cues Limited to text/voice patterns
Trust & rapport Built through presence Impersonal, formulaic feedback
Real-time adaptation Coach shifts direction immediately Static or delayed responses
Authentic feedback Insightful, nuanced, relationship-based Generic, repetitive messaging
Sustained goal progress Long-term accountability & growth Good for reminders, not depth

Conclusion: The Human Element Wins

AI has its place—augmenting, reinforcing, and supporting—but it cannot replicate the human connection, emotional depth, or adaptation offered by in-person coaches.

At Vixly, we're committed to coaching that transforms not just behavior, but understanding, motivation, and alignment—only a real coach can deliver that.

For meaningful, lasting growth—choose real people over programmed responses. Choose connection over convenience. Choose in‑person coaching. .

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